JOSIE LANE
Relationship & Communication Psychology
For Parents In Marital Distress
Intimately Loved
The Essentials of Romance & Relationships
An interactive membership to equip you to love & connect with confidence.
The skills, tools, and support needed for deeper conversations and cherished connections.
To give you the confidence & know-how to deeply transform your relationship!
Time to be Intimately Loved...
An intimate membership group that takes you from stuck to intimately conversing, lonely to intimately loved.
Every month we dive deep into a topic that I have seen couples struggle with, and take those issues deeper. We uncover the issue, the underlying triggers and needs, and have questions to make it more personal for you.
The training is provided with additional support to make sure we embody what you learn, making it part of the home life and not just more on your to-do list.
Intimately Loved is designed to create big shifts with a deep impact on your life.
Join me in a private membership group where we can talk about the relationship safely, and I answer the questions on the group. I also give you journal prompts to take things deeper. Once a month I go live on the topic, and you get to ask questions and benefit from personalized support all the way through!
In Intimately Loved, through many recorded modules, an integrative workbook, monthly live Zoom calls, access to recordings of past Q&As, and more, you will get:
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Crystal Clear on the big unseen hurdles and potholes so that you can break patterns that are sabotaging your relationship! This allows you to build the relationship of your dreams (and stop recreating the relationships of your parent/s)!;
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The best tools in the trade for deep communication; emotional regulation for safe, de-escalated conversations; rebuilding trust (with yourselves too); and creating a deep intimacy.
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Get the map of what it takes to build a solid, intimate & cherished relationship.
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Practices to do to help you embody what you learn so that it happens more naturally and often at home too, not just while working on it in the course.
JUST LAUNCHED!! SIGN UP NOW FOR THE OPENING SPECIAL AND KEEP THAT PRICE FOR AS LONG AS YOU STAY!
“You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” Dr. Seuss
What would it feel like if …
You were racing home with excitement because you couldn’t wait to see your partner (like you used to)?
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You and your partner are talking in a way that is peaceful, respectful, kind, and leaves you both feeling heard;
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You both feel loved and valued and share your life with each other;
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You find it easier to talk again for hours like you used to;
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And the loneliness has dissolved.
This is ALL possible with my confidently equipped, and deeply cherished program: Intimately Loved.
I'd love to show you how..
As a licensed counselor, I had a play therapy practice working with children. And it is through that work that I uncovered that so many of the children's issues stemmed from the discord at home. Unfortunately, most parents don't realize the detrimental effect their marriage has on their children.
We are not taught how to build a solid relationship that handles life, children, work stressors, health issues, and unpredictable times (like pandemics or wars).
From working with children I subsequently evolved into a marriage counselor (in private practice since 2012) and now an international coach. I studied under some of the top names of Couples therapists in the world (including getting my Level 2 done under the Gottman institute). And I was greatly honored to have been invited to present at a couples therapists' conference in the USA in 2018.
My love of learning and absolute passion for helping families means I've trained and continue to train in all things Relationship to give you the best chance to turn your relationship into something you (and the kids) can feel proud of! This course is for parents, but not only for parents. You can do this to boost your relationship confidence pre-marriage, or maybe to help you feel more prepared going into your next marriage if you've been previously divorced, or it's even been used by single men and women who want to feel prepared and confident going into their relationship in the future. (Coaches and therapists have also done this course to help them help their clients better).
I am passionate about love, and building relationships with the best tools to give you a fighting chance to see what it takes and experience a deep intimate connection with the ones you love.
Happily ever after does not only belong to fairytales or the lucky few.
Already know you want in? Get instant access to the course here.
This is a group mentorship program that you join and stay on for as long as you like, but it's designed to show you the exact steps to take to rebuild the foundations of your relationship and master communication for deep, healing conversations.
From your time there you will have intensive guidance. You’ll be receiving online training and group support so that you can…
Have deeper conversations
Know how to 'argue better'
Feel deeply heard
Feel cherished
Feel seen and appreciated
Feel like a team on the same side again.
The Intimately Loved membership group, gives you ALL the pieces of the puzzle you need to become confidently equipped and deeply connected in your relationship!
What’s different in this program from others?
With over two decades of working with families (and add having my own family), I combine the strategies I learned that created the best results for my clients (and my own family)!
I share tools that aren’t just theory but also practical! and we get to practice what you learn (because often things sound great in a book, but they’re harder than it looks and can be tricky to implement).
I share the top tools I share with all my clients (including my private pay, VIP 1:1s). I know relationships aren’t a one size fits all, but these tools are helpful for all relationships (unless you’re in an abusive relationship or there is massive unrest and trust is deeply broken – in which case we would need to first prioritize safety).
Once you implement Intimately Loved methods you will feel confidently equipped in your relationship (and if you are single – you can also do this course as it will help you feel prepared, confident, and more certain of yourself and what you want in your relationship in the future).
With ten-plus years in private practice and twenty-plus years working with families, I have extensive knowledge, love, wisdom, and expertise to guide you and your loved ones to a happily ever after.
I am passionate about learning so I combine some of the best strategies out there to give you the unique, quality support you need to turn things around and give you the ultimate relationship confidence.
Join us every week for 8 weeks as we cover the core concepts I have discovered that is necessary to create strong foundations and build a love that lasts not only through time but with a growth in connection too.
We will every week go LIVE and you will have access to the recordings afterward. You will also be able to post questions anonymously or live in the group. I will even do some hot-seat coaching for those who are up to it!
I feel so confident about our investment. It's been a gift to us! We look forward to our assigned time that we carved out every week to do this course together. We've even already noticed a difference in our daughter around the dinner table! Thank you!
A, USA
Life Changing!
My husband went into this skeptically, but after a few sessions, we realized why we were bumping heads and how to handle the situation better. Such small changes make such a big difference. Grateful for this course that has saved us many an argument. Thank you, Tehilla, for your guidance and your passion for helping others.
Katherine, SA
I enjoyed the course tremendously and have great respect for Tehilla's wisdom, insights, research and the compassion with which she helps us to come to grips with many challenges that we as couples are grappling with on a daily basis. Thank you - well worth it!
Caroline, Clinical Psychologist
SEE FOR YOURSELF HOW POWERFUL THIS PROGRAM IS….
HERE EXACTLY IS WHAT WE WILL COVER IN CONFIDENTLY EQUIPPED DEEPLY CHERISHED:
#MODULE 1: I = INNER HURTS, FEARS, DREAMS & PATTERNS
Learn the common reason for the frustrating tug of war in your conversations, where the more you push to talk the more your partner withdraws and the more they withdraw, the more you need to try to drag them out of that space until it ends in an explosion (externally or internally), or you both withdrawing and nothing getting resolved. Learn about Attachment injuries, and if you know about them already, this will give you new perspectives too.
You will learn:
Why do you and your partner get stuck in this limbo?
What your childhood has to do with your relationship now?
What impact your limbo is having on your kids?
What to do about it.
What you may have thought is a personality trait that's actually a childhood injury.
Insights that lead to more understanding and empathy for each other.
Insights into how to stop parenting your partner (or being parented).
This module alone is worth hundreds of dollars as the insights into your attachment injuries and childhood creates big shifts in how you see yourselves, each other, and even your parenting!
# MODULE 2: N = NEW NORMAL: ROLES & EXPECTATIONS FOR COUPLES TODAY
We have many expectations that seem logical and necessary of ourselves and each other but, if one thinks about it, weren’t really expressed explicitly to each other. This leads to looking down on the other (logic not being met, so we think the other isn’t as clever) and/or resentment.
You will learn:
How to get clear on your expectations
How to ask for what you want
How to work together on sharing the physical and emotional load
Steps to becoming a team
Masculine & Feminine Energy
Expectations Then & Now in Marriages, how to lead, be lead, and still be equal partners
# MODULE 3: T = TRUST, VALUES, SHAME, ANGER, AND OTHER CORE CONCEPTS TO DEEPER CONNECTIONS
Here we will explore the things often overlooked that have a big impact on the relationship and the arguments.
You will learn:
The Anatomy of Trust
Anger
Love Defined
Shame
Inner Drives & Values
# MODULE 4: I = INSIDE SCOOP ON SEX & INTIMACY
When the connection and friendship fades, or children and roles take over (or both) our chemistry can lesson and sex can become a chore or even, non-existent.
You will learn:
Different sex styles you and your partner might have
Worksheets and questions to get more clear on your sexual turn-ons and turn-offs
Understanding gender differences regarding needs being fulfilled by sex
# MODULE 5: MAPPING OUT YOUR HAPPILY EVER AFTER
Understand what it takes, step by step, to build a solid, happy home (and use this analogy to find your way back, any time you stray).
You will learn:
World Renown Map of A Solid Relationship
Core Points to Remember When rebuilding your 'home'
# MODULE 6: ALIGNED MINDSET & IDENTITY
Everything you try and implement that is new, is done with willpower and when you are tired or don’t keep practicing the new methods, they become redundant and you quickly fall back into old patterns. We all do. So working on mindset means we work on making these new methods part of your identity, and the natural response instead of the old way. This is the quickest way to make it more habitual and transformative as willpower is only as strong as you feel that given day.
You will learn:
Visualisation techniques
The language of your subconscious mind
How to transform your identity
Tools to help you regulate your nervous system
MODULE 6: YO-YO OR SMOOTHER TRANSITIONS: REGULATING YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM FOR SAFER CONVERSATIONS
Your body’s nervous system is designed to protect you from imminent danger, like lions and bears. But in today’s world where those threats aren’t as prominent, we are still in constant threat due to our bodies perceiving arguments with our spouse, stress about finances, etc also as life-threatening. When we’re in these states, connection, empathy and intimacy cannot be a priority. We need to create a sense of safety within our bodies first.
You will learn:
Our survival responses
Methods to support you and build your resiliency.
# MODULE 7: C = CORE COMMUNICATION TOOLS & SKILLS
Let me share with you the top tools I’ve discovered to turn difficult conversations and constant back and forth moaning and resentment into deeper, clarifying conversations.
You will learn:
The art of non-violent conversations
The needs behind your requests
How to ask that the other hears
Gender differences in conversations and arguments
How to listen better
Validation
Simply put: WORTH IT!!!
Ricky, UAE
BUT THAT’S NOT ALL…
I want to give you every possible resource I can to ensure that you become CONFIDENT and INSPIRED through your learnings!
BONUS #1: The First 10 People To Sign Up
The first 10 people to join this brand new membership get to a link to have a private Telegram chat channel with me for 2 months where I will send answer questions there directly too.
BUT regardless if you're a first or not - every single question in the FB group will have my individual attention within 48-72 hours.
BONUS #2: A FREE QUIZ
This short quiz will show you your current personality type. During your progressions through the course, you will see where your perceived personality type comes from and how to break through your patterns to create new connections.
BONUS #2: POWERFUL BOUNDARIES VISUALIZATION
This powerful technique that can be used in various instances where you struggle with your boundaries can be used as needed and helps you create instant shifts.
BONUS #3: JOURNAL PROMPTS
You will receive a beautiful online workbook that you can print and take notes in as you go through the course. It will help you with easy access to visual reminders and written notes, to take the conversations and revelations easier.
BONUS #4: ADDITIONAL RECORDINGS (Value from $47 to $111 each)
I am a passionate student, and always busy learning new things for my couples. As I find new approaches or work on my course, I will keep adding additional materials to the course to add to your toolbox of relationship skills!
BONUS #5: PRIVATE FB GROUP
Only accessible to those who are doing this training, join the people who are also committed to love that ignites and romance that lasts.
This means you get additional support through the group, between the calls.
BONUS #5: RECOMMENDATIONS
I will share with you my FAVOURITE reading, podcast, and app recommendations to deepen your intimacy further beyond the course!
Here’s the thing... you are meant to have happiness too!
Are you feeling excited yet? Good! Because here’s the best thing… You can literally be handed the exact system to get this for you… And once you apply the knowledge, you could change your life entirely as it did for me and many others!
Some Feedback:
“I really think this is a wonderful tool for couples to use when navigating through their relationship. The explanations on the attachment grid were very thorough and easy to understand and relate to. The content really helped us to highlight areas that may need more work as well as highlight things that are going well (which is encouraging). I'm sure many couples will find it very useful. Thank you!”
Mrs. Jodie Z.
"Hi Tehilla. I just wanted to say we learned SO MUCH and understand each other better now! Your course, the videos are such a great idea. The explanations were SUPER and the way you did the examples are very clear and understandable. We enjoyed it thoroughly and can really say we understand each other, and why we reacted in certain ways better and so we can now handle things in a better way."
S. Lotter
"WWWOWOWWW. Mind blown! We could easily identify our ‘injury’ and we will keep this in mind going forward. How valuable to now understand why we act the way we do. THIS was AMAZING! Made me tear up! I will practice this!! Really enjoying this! Thanks!"
K. Coetzee
"You make one feel at home and at ease. You create a feeling of trust which helps to open and share.
You are understanding, non-judgmental, and approachable. I recommend you to couples or women that need to rediscover their inner worth and strength."
Ilse
SO… ARE YOU READY TO BE THE NEXT CONFIDENT COUPLE THAT NOT ONLY LOOKS HAPPY BUT FEELS DEEPLY DESIRED, CONFIDENT, AND HAPPY TOO?
It gets to be easy! Just pick your payment option below, fill out your details, and you’re in!
OPENING SPECIAL
$50 per month
Will go up to $111
EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO:
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CREATE + BUILD YOUR OWN HAPPILY EVER AFTER
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STEP-BY-STEP LIVE TRAINING ON THE FOUNDATIONS AND CORE PRINCIPLES OF CONFIDENT CONNECTIONS
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SOME OF THE BEST AND MOST EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION TOOLS IN THE BIZ
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WEEKLY HANDS-ON SUPPORT TO TAKE YOU FROM DESPAIR TO REPAIR
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POST-SESSION RECORDINGS ACCESSIBLE ONLINE, ANYTIME, FROM ANY DEVICE
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MONTHLY HOMEWORK AND SUPPORT WITH THE HOMEWORK
PLUS YOU RECEIVE:
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INDIVIDUAL AND COMMUNITY SUPPORT ANYTIME IN THE FB GROUP
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PERSONAL QUESTIONS ANSWERED (IN PERSON OR ANONYMOUSLY) IN THE MONTHLY CALLS
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A VALUE-BASED WORKBOOK WITH KEY MATERIAL FROM THE COURSE FOR YOU TO TAKE NOTES IN AND DIG DEEPER INTO THE MODULES WITH.
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ACCOUNTABILITY SUPPORT
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COMMUNITY
YOU CAN GET CONFIDENTLY EQUIPPED WITH THE RIGHT MINDSET, TOOLS, AND DEDICATION.
“IS THIS PROGRAM RIGHT FOR ME?”
You have the power to also have the relationship you desire. What you will learn in this program has quite literally changed my life and the lives of so many couples I’ve coached through this process.
This is for you if:
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You don’t feel you have the right tools to communicate nicely in your relationship
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You don’t feel heard in your relationship
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You sometimes wonder how you got here, and IF you two can even fix it anymore
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You want your children to have better roles model of healthy relationships
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You want to have deeper conversations with your partner
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You want the tools to manage difficult conversations
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You’re done waiting for things to change on their own
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You crave more fun
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You crave more support
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You crave feeling cherished
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You are done with waiting for things to just get better on their own.
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
If you want to feel seen, heard, and valued as a partner and want to know what deep, intimate love is like, join me today!
You've got questions? I've got answers!
My partner is abusive/an addict/narcissist, would this help us?
Unfortunately, these tools will not be able to transform the deep-rooted issues underlying those issues and I would recommend you see someone to support you individually with this.
I’ve just discovered my partner's affair, would this help?
The tools can be insightful and you can find it helpful to see some relationship saboteurs in your relationship. But the pain, trauma, and triggers would be better addressed in 1:1 sessions. You two would need deep support to create emotional regulation, and safety, and address the real why behind the affair before you can feel safe enough to integrate the tools.
Will I get personalized advice?
Yes, you will! Via the FB group, you can ask me any quick answer questions. All questions need to be asked in the group so that other participants benefit.
What kind of results can I expect?
That’s completely up to you lovely. While I’d like to tell you that the minute you enroll, your relationship will automatically be transformed, that simply isn’t true. You might feel excited with the hope of opportunity though!
What I CAN tell you is that this program is a love child of mine! It is jam-packed with tons of incredible tools, techniques, and insights that have helped me and dozens of other couples create genuine, real-life transformations.
If you’re prepared to seriously dig in, do the work, and take action on everything you’ve learned.. Well, the sky’s the limit, and the results can blow your mind!
When does the programe / membership start?
It has just launched now on 26 April 2023. You can join any time. I will be repeating the modules every 8 months to get you to interact live with me on them, no matter when you joined!
What is the refund policy?
Due to the extensive training provided and knowing how much value clients get out of the course, there is NO refund policy. However, I am happy to discuss ANY concerns or questions directly with you before and during and am certainly open to refunding if the situation warrants it.
How much time do I need to commit to the program?
The lives will be 1 hour a month, but I recommend spending 10 minutes a day focused on the relationship. Asking questions in the group etc.
What if we’ve tried therapy before?
If you’ve tried therapy, learned a bunch of tools, and you’re still going around in circles then I recommend one-on-one work with me instead so we can look at identity shifts and inner safety to do the heavy lifting. This course is still a unique combination of incredible tools from an array of therapy modalities and you’re very likely not to have heard some of these concepts before, and not combined like they are!
HERE'S WHAT SOME OTHERS HAVE TO SAY…
" I am very impressed with Tehilla's comprehensive knowledge on the subject of
couple's work".
Doreen Hofmeyr , Counseling Psychologist
“You have no idea how it feels for me to have found someone after all these years that I truly feel safe to share with. I trust you Tehilla and I have always struggled with trust. But you get me!” MB
“I enjoyed the course tremendously and have great respect for Tehilla's wisdom, insights, research and the compassion with which she helps us to come to grips with many challenges that we as couples are grappling with on a daily basis. Thank you - well worth it!” Caroline G., Clinical Psychologist
“This makes so much sense! So many things we were experiencing and I didn’t know how to word it. It finally all makes sense!” SD
STILL NOT SURE?
How long have you been trying to figure out what you can do that will feel more supported, and feel deeply loved again in your relationship?
As a confidently equipped couple, you not only look happier but you show up differently at home, at work, and in life.
So many have been where you are and are now feeling more equipped, closer, and even feel safer knowing their patterns, the tools, and identifying as the confident soul they are.
You can have this too. The knowledge and tools I share with you, coupled with your dedication and self-belief, will get you there. I know it.
And, honestly, if not with this partner, with someone who is dedicated to your relationship and personal happiness too.
So come on, join me on this journey.
Let’s do this!
JOIN TODAY AND FINALLY FEEL SUPPORTED IN ACHIEVING YOUR CONFIDENTLY EQUIPPED IDENTITY AS THE RELATIONSHIP ROCKSTAR THAT YOU ARE!