Relationship & Communication Psychology
For Parents In Marital Distress
Wake Up Happy
Rewire your past to create a love you're passionate about
Are you ready to exchange loneliness, struggle, and resentment for connection, support, and intimate connection?
Imagine feeling seen, understood, and looking forward to seeing each other again. Where sharing feelings and having deeper conversations is easy, and laughter rings through the house again...
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Healing from unfinished past hurts;
Having supported deep conversations on topics that in the past hurt too much or just went around in circles;
Less "shutting down" from one partner, and "pushing to talk" by the other;
Deeper conversations, easily;
Support and teamwork;
Clarity on roles & expectations;
Deep inner safety...
I've helped hundreds of people over the last 10plus years achieve deep transformation.
I want this for you too!
“When we started I did not want to do this. I didn’t believe therapists could do anything to help. I thought they were overpaid listeners, to be honest. But you’ve really helped me see things I didn’t know about us and about me. I understand more now. You made it easy to talk and always know the right questions to ask. Thank you!”
What's the ultimate definition of success? Whether it is financially, physically, emotionally, in your family, etc... I would say the goal of your efforts boils down to being able to Wake Up Happy again. My desire for you is to experience waking up happy again too.
(Note: if you're here because of an affair(s), please see the options for working with me here. It's a different route, as we need to work through more live triggers and PTSD-type containment. You can still read everything on this page, but the process we will follow is on that page).
What will Relationship Alchemy do for you?
Show you your patterns that are getting you two stuck in a dance that neither of you like.
It will help you to recognize and rewire the unhelpful patterns of push and pull in the relaitonship.
It will help you heal from the major childhood trauma's and beliefs that hurt your relationship.
It will teach you some of the best tools in the therapy world for couples.
It will show you ways to regulate your nervous system to have safer disagreements.
It will improve your emotional intelligence.
It will teach you to connect with your body and form a healthy, incredible relationship with your body wisdom.
It will help you two have those difficult conversations safely.
It will build your confidence and trust in yourself.
It will help you be able to let go of and heal from old hurts and disagreements.
It will help you feel more seen, heard, and appreciated.
And for those doing the 90-days or 9-month Relationship Overhaul:
All of the above, as well as...
It will help you two connect deeper, and improve your intimacy.
It will show you two how to have more fun and laughter together.
It will help you get your needs met and your dreams appreciated.
It will help you feel more supported in your different roles and experiences.
There will be ample time for tweaking, seeing what works and what doesn't. And to keep you both accountable to the process of growth and connection.
Close your eyes for a moment and imagine your partner is happy to see you, you both embrace each other for a long, and the chemistry and love are tangible. And there is a deep appreciation between you two...
How does that feel?
How different does your life look with this being the norm in your relationship?
How does it affect your children?
It's time to go from DISTANT, LONELY, and FRUSTRATED to EASE and FUN.
If you are a couple who are both wanting to be closer, have less tension, and have deeper fulfillment but you've tried so many things (maybe even therapy before) and it didn't work so you don't know how to ... let me sort out the how.
You two need to choose to commit.
Commit to learning about yourselves.
Commit to learning about each other.
Commit to moving forward.
Commit to the sessions.
Commit to growth.
You can't build a relationship today, on the foundations of an era so distant and different from our modern lives.
Today's romance is based on a time when we are inundated with information, and comparisons. Where everything from nappy changes to holidays are negotiated. Where men don't have the traditional patriarichal, expected role, and women are wanting to be more than barefoot and pregnant (nothing wrong with wanting that too, but their dreams and desires go deeper and women are allowed to dream for more and men's roles leave them sometimes feeling irrelevant or confused.
We need guidance and support to create marriages that can handle the pressures and maintain deep appreciation and connection.
"The Quality of Your Relationships Determines the Quality of Your Life."
- Esther Perel
"I had no idea how to explain what was going on with us, or why. I didn't think happy was possible anymore. There was so much pain. But you helped us see things we couldn't before and your direction and softness made it so much easier. Thank you!
"You know your stuff. We've tried THREE different therapists before. They were good, but this is something completely different. And we're getting a lot deeper than they were willing to go."
Relationships affect not only your marriage, but your work productivity, your health, and even the relationships your children choose in the future!! I know it's a lot of pressure to put on someone, but it's the truth and that is why I am so very passionate about helping my couples find their spark again and build deep relationships!
This program is for:
Couples who want more for their marriage.
Couples who are ready for deep transformation.
Couples who are prepared to go deep within themselves to change their marriage.
Couples who are willing to unpack their own contribution to the marital issues for the greater growth of the marriage.
Couples who want to show their children what marriage can look like.
Couples who want to laugh more again.
Couples who love each other, despite the pain or resentment.
Couples committed to thriving over surviving their relationship.
This program is NOT for:
Couples who are not willing to look at themselves during the process.
Couples who are not able to commit to regular 2-3 hour sessions, for the first month.
Couples who feel it's only their partner's issue.
Couples struggling with active addiction, abuse, or unsupported mental illness.
Couples with poor internet connection.
Let's connect. I do a 15-minute free call before I sign anyone as I need to make sure we are a good fit!
Please note, my fees are high-ticket (more expensive than your average therapist) as I provide a very efficient, unique, and powerful approach. I save you time and give you lasting results.
+27-28-001-0555 (South Africa Time Zone)