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Weekend Intensives
Fly-in Or Online

Weekend Intensives where you get done in a weekend what typically takes months.

Are you ready to see what is really causing the pain in your relationship and take full responsibility for your own growth and contribution to see massive transformation in your relationship?

"Dear Tehilla,


I feel compelled to write to you, although I don't really know how to word what I feel I need to say.  Recently, 'stream of consciousness' writing has helped me profoundly, so I apologise in advance if there is a lack of sentence structures and it appears nonsencicle.  Here goes...


Nothing prepared me for what happened yesterday and nothing prepared me for the way I felt when I woke up this morning.  It's hard to describe, but my entire body felt light?  The best I can describe it, is that my limbs, my 'inside' felt like it was filled with clouds - thin, beautiful cirrus clouds - the ones that look like souls floating through the sky.  And so much space.  Nothing tight, nothing dense.  Later, when I had my coffee on my egg chair, I realised it was also like that gentle rocking weightlessness, yet cocooned.  

Wow! It was truly one of the most powerful, intense and significant experiences of my life.  I assume it was evident?  I feel like I should apologise for the snot and sorry to have to use that word!  But I feel even that was part of it, but I am sorry you had to witness it!  But that aside, I want to thank you from the bottom of my 50 year old heart and from the bottom of my baby heart, my little girl heart, my teenage girl heart, my young woman heart, my broken heart and my whole heart.  Thank you for asking the question, thank you for working your magic and miracles and mostly, thank you for holding the safest, most compassionate space for me to go and meet that little girl, to see her and make her feel seen, to protect her and make her feel protected, to set her free and make her feel loved and bring back the possibility of joy to both her and me.

And to think that wasn't all you did for me/us these past 2 days!?! The BWRT session on Friday afternoon was in itself hugely transformative and empowering. And the reason we actually came to you... you truly helped my husband and myself to turn our approach to each other around - 180 degrees! So, whatever we decide, wherever we go from here, I know we can now approach it with love and compassion, rather than blame and resentment. And look at the past 17 years in the same way. What a gift - for us and our little boy. Thank you.

Thank you for sharing your divine gift.

With enormous gratitude and love,

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Get to know each other

4pm - 6pm*

Getting to know you two together and preparing for the weekend.


Online forms and assessments to get you both thinking about things in a different way already and to give me insights into what is going on on a deeper level for you two.

Online Prep

Gottman Assessment

Goals & Wishes Interview

Enneagram or SYMBIS Assessment

Love Languages Cheat Sheet

Relationship Quiz for attachment injuries

Hotel Swimming Pool


The Assessment & Feedback

10am - 5pm*

Individual patterns exploration then a 3 hour feedback session after lunch


Because we have so much time over the weekend booked for your relationship we have plenty of time to take breaks, rest, and to split into individual sessions when needed. 


A weekend Workbook

A Weekend Commitment



Healing Old Wounds

10am - 4pm*

Deep individual & relational healing work

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Post Weekend

You will receive free accesst to my course The Ultimate Relationship Toolbox which you can access to go through any of the tools suggested you two work on further.

For those who decide to work further with me, we will keep working online based on the findings of the assessment.

Going Forward

Course Access ($555)

Guide for way forward

These weekends are tailormade to your unique needs and circumstances. The start times can vary according to your desires (earlier rises prefer earlier starts, as an example).

You can fly in to a hotel in Hermanus, South Africa or I can be flown out to any hotel (pre-approved by me) in the world (the flights and accommodation and meals and transport are at your expense and not included in the weekend price). For those flying in to see me I am happy to offer suggestions of places I have used in the past.

For those flying in from far (or wanting me to fly in from far), I recommend booking a week intensive instead of a weekend and really making the most out of your intensive.

I do, however, not book any weekend with a couple without having met with them online for a Q&A free call first. And I do not work with couples in active domestic violence or abuse situations.

But if you would like to see how much you can get right over two-and-a-half days, and you are ready to go deep within yourself to support the process, I have seen such beautiful transformations happen over these weekends!

Please note: If you're not certain about your marriage and if you want to stay or not, these weekend intensives are also good for you each to get really clear on what happened and to help you feel more confident in your decision you make from this.


Set up a free call to discuss this in more detail and address any questions you may have:

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