Next Workshop: 

Surviving the Affair: An online group workshop to give you some tangible tools and support during this crisis.

Things are probably feeling really surreal, confusing, and overwhelming. Perhaps you are swinging between feeling disgusted and rage to desperation to save your marriage, then back again to rage. Back and forth, up and down. Not sure which way is up. I'm so sorry for the pain you are in!

Having worked with couples in crisis for nearly a decade now, I would love to share with you some insight, strategies, and practical support to help you stay afloat (until you get to have your appointment with your therapist). 

I am hosting a virtual workshop where you can hear what I've learned over the years working with infidelity & crisis in couples.


ONLINE via Zoom

10 February 2012, 9 am EST (3 pm CET, 4 pm SAST)
$37 (R500)

Some of the topics we will cover are:

  • what many of my clients wish they knew when they first found out about an affair (and what they wish they didn't do);

  • understand what to expect;

  • why you can't stop thinking about it;

  • what questions are better to ask;

  • should you stay or go and stuff on trust;

  • Strategies to cope;

  • Tools to dealing with shame;

  • Those who attend the event live will be able to ask questions (anonymously) in the Q&A. 

This is a virtual (online) workshop to be held via Zoom.

There will be a second workshop (on the same topic) on the 24th of February for those who can't make this date. 

The workshop will be recorded, and you will have access to the recordings (in March).

You can remain anonymous to the other participants during this workshop. 

Maybe this is for you, or perhaps someone you know and care for is suffering from the aftermath of an affair. This workshop promises to be informative, supportive, and practical. Please just be sure to check with your friend if purchasing for someone else if they feel up to this. 

Please note: If you are at all concerned for your safety or someone else's safety reach out to the nearest hospital, therapist, and/or friend. It is of utmost importance that you get support during this time. 


South Africans please contact us directly to book your spot: or 028-001-0555

Click here to pay via PAYPAL. Once you've booked your spot, please send the POP to and we will send you the zoom link and futher details. 

The Couples Connection

29, 7th Avenue, Voelklip, HERMANUS

Western Cape, South Africa

Tel: +27- (0)28-001-0555

Tehilla Luttig

Registered Private Practice Counsellor 

Pr No 0538396 Reg No PRC0016837  

(Hons. BSocSci Psychology - UCT 2007)

Certified Life Coach

Licensed BWRT practioner

Tehilla Luttig's profile on the Gottman Referral Network