Grow Your Vision
Are you tired of going around in circles, over the same argument that just doesn't seem to go anywhere? You both either flooded (shut down or fired up), before it's even begun, or find talking about it leads to past experiences being thrown around or your fights are finger-pointing, fact-shoving, going-no-where kinda conversations?
Maybe you're both even considering separation because it is just too painful to keep going like this?
Or maybe you're the kinda couple that never fights. you're both good at appeasing and serving but the hidden resentment or distance is starting to taste bitter.
The things can't be hidden under the carpet anymore, you're tripping over it now..
The 30-Day Bootcamp is a one-month commitment to dig deep into seeing how you two got here, and then working on what we discovered to help you both get a clear path forward.
This Bootcamp is the basis of all my programs, and is for couples who want more! (Even if you're considering separation, the insights gained from the Bootcamp are super useful in helping you understand your feelings and you can make a more confident decision).
Our aim is to rip off the band-aid, bring awareness to the patterns festering underneath (and why they're there), to challenge some core beliefs, and guide you to better conversations and deeper connections.
The 30-Day Bootcamp is intensive! It's deep and requires a dedicated commitment - but this allows for a MASSIVE shift, in JUST 30 Days!
How Does It Look:
Week 1
The Big Assessment.
You can read all about it here. But it consists of online assessments, a joint session where I get to know you two, two individual sessions (one with each of you where we explore your childhood connections), and a 3 hour feedback session where we explore and discuss the way forward.
8 Hours
(plus an hour or so online)
Week 2 & 3
De-Activating / Processing Triggers.
A 90-Minute session with each of you individually each week to rewire unhelpful beliefs or injuries.
6 Hours
Week 3
Rounding Off Together
Having a joint session where you can implement what you have learned to allow you in a safe, guided atmosphere to have a difficult conversation.
This will not only help you with the conversation but help you both experience what a contained conversation can feel and look like.
Discussing the way forward is also usually done here.
3 Hours
Note:
Please note:
For those with many years of hurt & betrayal (or those in the throws of affair discovery), the 30-Day Bootcamp is just a kick-start and not long enough to heal as deep as needed.
I recommend more individual sessions during our time to help you de-activate the triggers and work through the why's. This would be best served under the 90-day or longer.
What you will learn:
01
Gain a deeper understanding of your relationship patterns and what your family of origin has to do with any of this.
02
Work with and through my top tools for communication, based on 10-years of studies from top names in the field of psychology.
03
Deactivate 1-2 triggers / limiting beliefs. And learn tools to build your EQ.
04
Learn to ground yourself (regulation) for emotional safety and trust in difficult conversations.
04
Course-lifetime access to my course, The Ultimate Couples Toolbox (valued at $555). Here you will have videos explaining a lot of what we talked about (in a more general sense of course as our sessions are personalized) in our sessions to refresh your memory along the way!