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The Poisoned Apple:

You think you're being a martyr, but you've been lulled asleep by a false promise.

We were taught that being of service was good and that being 'good' would lead to being held, seen and appreciated. That silence and abandoning your desires was what it meant to be a good mom or wife. But it was a false promise with empty rewards.

Too many women are silently (some not so silently) drowning in resentment, overwhelm and feeling lost at what to do about it. The pressures are massive parenting and working, and what you're looking for from your partner isn't translating. 

There was a time i was too angry to sleep, and too tired to do anything about it. I believed the more I did, gave, predicted, prepared, serviced, the more my needs would be reciprocatedly met. But it didn't happen. And it doesn't happen for the thousands of women I have worked with (before we started our work together). We need to get clear on waht we want and need, drop the guilt of our desires, own our power and worht, and speak in a language that get's him to take more aligned actions at home.

 

That is why I have created this 10 day Telegram Resentment Reset. I want you to have a sisterhood, where you see you're not alone. And the space and support to put down the heavy disapointments, the hidden shame, the scared little girl who doesn't feel worthy, and be seen, supported and guided to finding a little more braething room, permission for your feelings, and guidance on how to create momentum with this energy.
 

You’re not weak. You’re not too much.
You’ve carried the weight of your home, your heart, and your hopes.

But strength isn’t the absence of support.
And leadership doesn’t mean carrying it all alone.

This isn’t for the woman waiting to be rescued.
It’s for the woman who’s ready to reclaim her softness without losing her power.

Join the sisterhood

Meet Sarah.
She wasn’t the kind of woman who yelled.
She was the kind who kept the peace. Who made it all work. Who smiled even when it stung.

But lately, she was snapping over small things. The coffee cup left out. The wet towel on the bed. The way he asked, “What’s wrong now?” like she was the problem.

Sarah didn’t want to be angry.
She just wanted to feel like a partner, not a ghost.
She kept thinking, “Maybe it’s me. Maybe I expect too much.”

But one day, as she stood folding laundry at midnight (again), something clicked:
She wasn’t broken.
She’d just swallowed the poison apple.

Not all at once.
But in tiny bites—every time she said “it’s fine” when it wasn’t.
Every time she didn’t ask for help because she knew it wouldn’t come.
Every time she carried it all so nobody else had to.

And now, it was time to wake up.

🕯️ This is for you if...

  • You’re exhausted from over-functioning, over-feeling, and under-receiving

  • You crave clarity — not just venting, but understanding and changing the dynamic

  • You know this is bigger than your relationship — it’s about your relationship to yourself

  • You want to stop performing peace and start embodying it

This is not for women who want to stay in victim mode.
It is for the ones who’ve carried too much for too long — and are ready to carry something new.

Are you ready to step into your queendom?

This is not a 'cure' in that you will never feel resentment again. Resentment has a. purpose, its the unheard loop that keeps us stuck. But it is a place to put things down, get perspective, feel seen and supported, journal into your heart deeper, and leave the end of the challenge feeling lighter and more empowered than before.

So if you're ready for a 10-day reset, don't waste another minute living in the land of "what-if's" or "maybe if I just.." and get real clear on what you need and how to get those needs met.

I am SO excited to see you there.

What's inside:

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Release resentment and feel at home in yourself again. This isn't about letting him 'off the hook' but re-empowering yourself in your relationship to get what you deserve.

EARLY BIRD: $37 / R500 ZAR

Will be: $97 / R1500

The Resentment Cure

The power is within you.

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