Secure Love:

Untangling Subconscious Relationship Patterns (Attachments) Hurting Your Relationships

How did we get from where we were, to here?

A self-paced guide to understanding your attachment style, decoding your and your partner’s often subconscious patterns, and building the secure connection you’ve craved.

I remember years ago, when my then boyfriend (now husband) was out fishing on a boys trip, thinking, how can he take so long to come home, after he's been out all weekend on a boys trip! Doesn't he love me? Or texting him, seeing he is online, and then thinkiing "Geez - why won't he write back immediately?" The dreaded background whisper of:

"Does he really just not care?"

In my head I thought if he really loved me, he would RACE home to me. That if he really loved me, he would text me as soon as he saw I wrote. I didn't see it from the outside. It was a background noise. I didn't realize I was assuming our logic was the same, our behavior was motivated the same way - or that sometimes my feelings (and my logic) was based on fear not truth.

There are so many aspects of our relationships that we think "if he would just.." or "maybe if I...". And it can keep us stuck and circling the same conversations, same arguments, same situations, without momentum. If anything shifts its for a day, maybe even a week, but then it resumes to the old ways.

The good news is you don't have to wait for him to be ready for couples therapy, or repeat the same fight in a new way, for things to take a turn now already! When you understand why you do what you do, and why he responds the way he does - everything gets a lot easier! This course is packed with insights, AND tools to help you get the support, validation, and connection you long for.

Brene Brown defines "Connection" as "being seen, heard, and appreciated".

There are SO many women I have seen (men too) that would keep giving as much as they do for the family with a lot less resentment - if it was at least appreciated. Understanding how we are wired differently as our core relationships in childhood informed us, can give your relationship the new level it needs to get more support, and feel truly loved.

And that is why I creatd this course. I have seen over the last decade in private practice the immediate impact this insight gave to all my high end 1:1 private clients, and I want to make the world a better place. I believe each society is made up by communities, and families are the backbone of our communities. I want our children to grow up in secure love, and I want our relationships to thrive. It breaks my heart to see how many people are shifting apart when I have the tools to help you bring change, today already.

Start the transformation immediately, only $37 / R500 (opening special).

I'm Ready!

What if it's not the wrong person?

What if you aren't too much?

What if things can start changing today already?