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Masterpiece Marriages:

Where deep, intimate connections are carved and love flows

Are you ready to exchange the loneliness, struggle, and resentment for connection, support, and intimate connection?

Already know you want in? Book your free discovery call here:

Imagine feeling seen, understood, and looking forward to seeing each other again? Where sharing about feelings and having deeper conversations is easy, and laughter rings through the house again..

We're talking

  • Healing from unfinished past hurts;

  • Having supported deep conversations on topics that in the past hurt too much or just went around in circles;

  • Less "shutting down" from one partner, and "pushing to talk" by the other;

  • Deeper conversations, easily;

  • Better sex;

  • Deeper Intimacy;

  • More Fun;

  • More laughter;

  • Support and teamwork;

  • Clarity on roles & expectations;

  • Better boundaries;

  • Deep inner safety...

I've helped hundreds of people over the last 10plus years achieve deep transformation.

I want this for you too! 

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“When we started I did not want to do this. I didn’t believe therapists could do anything to help. I thought they were overpaid listeners, to be honest. But you’ve really helped me see things I didn’t know about us and about me. I understand more now. You made it easy to talk and always know the right questions to ask. Thank you!”

Ways To Work With Me:

Happy couple

30-Day Bootcamp

A 1,5-day assessment followed by 3-hour weekly sessions for 30 days to resuscitate & breathe new life into your relationship.

Couple on a Walk

90-Day Relationship Reset

The 30-day Bootcamp coupled with individual sessions and joint working through difficult conversations. Great to revive, heal, and grow together with.

Young Couple

9-Month Relationship Themed Recalibration

The assessment, the reset, and then guided support to make sure the new tools and change aren't short-lived and that the impact is deep and impactful by being accountable for months after the 'novelty' wore off. After the 90-day reset, we also start working more according to themes relevant to your relationship. 

The assessment already gives you deep, transformative insights and "aha's". Then being led by someone who knows what they're doing, the 'how to' of your relationship..

And the best part...

You will not only leave with brilliant relationship tools and knowing your partner better, but you will also feel deeply reconnected and tuned in to your self!

You are getting...

01

A Full Assessment

(1,5 day deep dive)

02

1:1 Expert support for you two as a couple and individually (individual support regarding the relationship)

03

WhatsApp or Voxer support (during office hours)

Bonus

Journal & Guided Meditations / Visualizations

Bonus

Access to my self-study Ultimate Couples Toolbox course

Bonus

A full-day immersion (in person in Hermanus, South Africa), with the 9-month package only.

What will Relationship Alchemy do for you?

Show you your patterns that are getting you two stuck in a dance that neither of you like.

It will help you to recognize and rewire the unhelpful patterns of push and pull in the relaitonship.

It will help you heal from the major childhood trauma's and beliefs that hurt your relationship.

It will teach you some of the best tools in the therapy world for couples.

It will show you ways to regulate your nervous system to have safer disagreements.

It will improve your emotional intelligence.

It will teach you to connect with your body and form a healthy, incredible relationship with your body wisdom.

It will help you two have those difficult conversations safely.

It will build your confidence and trust in yourself.

It will help you be able to let go of and heal from old hurts and disagreements.

It will help you feel more seen, heard, and appreciated.

And for those doing the 90-days or 9-month Relationship Overhaul:

All of the above, as well as...

It will help you two connect deeper, and improve your intimacy.

It will show you two how to have more fun and laughter together.

It will help you get your needs met and your dreams appreciated.

It will help you feel more supported in your different roles and experiences.

There will be ample time for tweaking, seeing what works and what doesn't. And to keep you both accountable to the process of growth and connection.

Close your eyes for a moment and imagine your partner is happy to see you, you both embrace each other for long, the chemistry and love is tangible. And there is a deep appreciation between you two...

How does that feel?

How different does your life look with this being the norm in your relationship?

How does it affect your children?

It's time to go from DISTANT, LONELY, and FRUSTRATED to EASE and FUN.

If you area  couple who are both wanting to be closer, have less tension, and deeper fulfillment but you've tried so many things (maby even therapy before) and it didn't work so you don't know how to ... let me sort out the how.

You two need to choose to commit.

 

Commit to learning about yourselves.

Commit to learning about each other.

Commit to moving forward.

Commit to the sessions.

Commit to growth. 

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Happily Ever After Does Not Only Belong To Fairytales

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You can't build a relationship today, on the foundations of an era so distant and different to our modern lives.

Today's romance is based on a time where we are inundated with information, and comparisons. Where everything from nappy changes to holidays are negotiated. Where men don't have the traditional patriarichal, expected role, and women are wanting to be more than barefoot and pregnant (nothing wrong with wanting that too, but their dreams and desires go deeper and women are allowed to dream for more and men's roles leave them sometimes feeling irrelevant or confused. 

We need guidance and support to create marriages that can handle the pressures and maintain deep appreciation and connection.

"The Quality of Your Relationships Determines the Quality of Your Life."

 

- Esther Perel

TESTIMONIALS

"I had no idea how to explain what was going on with us, or why. I didn't think happy was possible anymore. There was so much pain. But you helped us see things we couldn't before and your direction and softness made it so much easier. Thank you!

"You know your stuff. We've tried THREE different therapists before. They were good, but this is something completely different. And we're getting a lot deeper than they were willing to go."

Relationships affect not only your marriage, but your work productivity, your health, and even the relationships your children choose in the future!! I know it's a lot of pressure to put on someone, but it's the truth and that is why I am so very passionate about helping my couples find their spark again and build deep relationships!

Here is what we will cover in the Magnetic, Majestic, Masterpiece Marriages programs:

90-Day Relationship Revival: 

Week One: The Relationship Assessment (About 8 hours in session, and online work to complete at home).
Week Two: 3-Hour Couples Session on the feedback of the assessment.
Week Three: 3-Hour Couples Session continued work on the feedback as needed.
Week Four: Two Individual Sessions. One session with each of you for individual support. 90-Minutes per session.
Week Five: 2-3 Hours Couples' Session: Deep, difficult conversations support.
Week Six: Individual Sessions on triggers and BWRT.
Week Seven: 2-3 Hours Couples' Session for deep, difficult conversations.
Week Eight: Two Individual Session (topic on what needed).
Week Nine: 2-3 Hour Couples Session (on what is needed).
Week Ten: Two Individual Sessions (on what is needed).
Week Eleven: 2-3 Hour Couple's Session (on what is needed).
Week Twelve: Individual Or Couples work depending on the couples needs.


9-Month Relationship Overhaul: Re-doing the i-do's: 
After the above approach, we dig deeper into themes relevant to rebuilding relationships on stronger foundations.
Month 4: Somatic Work and EQ over one couples and 2 Individual Sessions (as needed)
Month 5: Roles & Expectations
Month 6: Mindset and Goals
Month 7: Shame, values, apologies
Month 8: Intimacy & Trust
Month 9: Accountability, Boundaries, And Moving On

*Please note: the themes can be rearranged and redecided according to the assesment and the couples's needs. And the individual and couples sessions are as needed, and spread out more and more over the months with the majority of the woork falling into the first four months. But this does not mean the next 5 months aren't relevant. They have a big impact on recalibration, accountability, thematic support, and tweaking. Also, as life is not static, and things happen, we can always arrange extra sessions at times if needed. Or less, when you are busy. 

This program is for:

Couples who want more for their marriage.

Couples who are ready for deep transformation.

Couples who are prepared to go deep within themselves to change their marriage.

Couples who are willing to unpack their own contribution to the marital issues for the greater growth of the marriage.

Couples who want to show their children what a marriage can look like.

Couples who want to laugh more again.

Couples who love each other, despite the pain or resentment.

Couples committed to thriving over surviving their relationship.

This program is NOT for:

Couples who are not willing to look at themselves during the process.

Couples who are not able to commit to longer sessions, regularly at start.

Couples who feel it's only their partner's issue.

Couples struggling with active addiction, abuse, or unsupported mental illness.

Couples with poor internet connection.

Contact

Let's connect. I always do a 15-minute free call before we sign anyone as I need to make sure we are a good fit!

+27-28-001-0555 (South Africa Time Zone)